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February 23, 2018
Reality TV Show features professing Christians that swap wives, and “Preach the Word of God through swinging.” – Blasphemy!
According to their Facebook page, Barcroft TV airs a program called “Extreme Love.” This particular decadent show is about ‘professing’ Christians that are “Christian wife swappers,” and that “Preach the Word of God through swinging.” Their video description field also reads, “This is God’s plan” Devout Christians Cristy and Dean Parave are spreading the word of God through swinging.”
These folks allege to be “devout Christians.” No, they are not! Though I am not judging their salvation, I am judging their fruit. Perhaps they are either false converts (Matthew 7:21-23), or bonafide wolves in sheep’s clothing. Nonetheless they are the whoremongers that the Scriptures warn about. Either way, they may not be savable at all, they might in fact be the reprobates mentioned in Romans 1. In other words, the Lord may have already forsaken them.
Let’s look at two important areas. 1) methods of evangelism, and 2) soteriology.
First, sadly a majority of America’s churchianity are opponents to preaching the Gospel in the streets, all the while they are proponents of what is known as ‘friendship evangelism,’ which erroneously believe that a relationship must be established to effectively share the Gospel (so man-centered). But this takes ‘friendship evangelism’ to another level. To engage in sexual immorality in hopes to “share the Gospel,” is a stench in the nostrils of a holy God.
Second, if these “swingers” truly believe that they are saved, then they are a byproduct of today’s unbiblical soteriologies such as,
repeat this prayer after me, and you will be saved
make a decision for Christ
while in church, bow your head, close your eyes, now slip up your hand (as their unbiblical pastor says “I see that hand.”)
walk forward down this aisle (altar calls)
accept Jesus and be saved, or
invite Jesus into your heart.
Either way, their ‘swinging’ is blasphemy, and an abomination onto the Lord; and yes God hates it.
I am asking my viewers that are saved, two things. 1) become a ‘proponent’ of street preaching, and 2) please repent from these unbiblical soteriologies.
Lastly, we can find encouragement thru these discouraging stories. Because as the Scriptures forewarned us,
“This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good. Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth” (2 Timothy 3:1-7).
I was going to embed their video that I watched, but instead I will link to it here (viewer discretion advised). More importantly, I am going to provide my video teaching on Psalm chapter 5:4-6 (God’s hatred of sin, & His hatred of some sinner’s). Also below this video, I have included some of my sermon notes.
SERMON NOTES HERE:
In this next passage the Scriptures mention an ‘attribute’ of God that most modern-day scholars dare to discuss in detail. That is the Doctrine of God’s wrath, as well as His ‘hatred.’
To keep this study Biblical, I must teach the ‘whole counsel of God (Acts 20:26-27), both His goodness and His severity (Rom 11:22-24).
Understanding God’s anger, hatred, justice and wrath, is just as important to understanding His love. Because ‘fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge’ (Proverbs 1:7).
A ‘necessary component’ to a moral character, is to ‘abhor evil.’
A Facebook friend (Bob) asked to meet with me. Once we met-up together, he then gently questioned and rebuked me for my frequent mentioning of “God’s wrath,” when I preach in the streets. Thankfully he received my ‘reason why’ with humility. But sadly Bob still attends an unhealthy church.
As Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones (1899-1981) said in his book on Theology, “The righteousness and the justice of God, of course, are revealed almost everywhere in the Scriptures. The wrath of God is taught in both the Old and New Testaments. Our Lord Himself taught it; one of the cardinal doctrines of the whole Bible is that God has a hatred of sin which he expresses in His wrath. If anyone does not believe (being entrusted to & committed to Christ), says John, then ‘the wrath of God abideth on him’ (Eph 2:3, John 3:36).”
As A.W. Pink (1886-1892) said in his book “The attributes of God,” A study of the concordance will show that there are more references in Scripture to the anger, fury, and wrath of God, than are to His love and tenderness. Because God is holy, He hates all sin; and because He hates all sin, His anger burns against the sinner.”
Therefore this next passage will be difficult to teach. Not ‘difficult doctrinally,’ nor ‘tuff theologically,’ but difficult because it involves some ‘hard to swallow truths’ about God, which takes God’s courage to exegete.
We must remember that the same God that is infinite in love, is also infinite in holiness, justice, wrath, as well as ‘hatred of sin’ and hatred against sinner’s that practice sin.
Next in Verses 4-6 David says, ‘For thou art not a God that hath pleasure in wickedness: neither shall evil dwell with thee. 5 The foolish shall not stand in thy sight: thou hatest all workers of iniquity. 6 Thou shalt destroy them that speak leasing: the Lord will abhor the bloody and deceitful man.’
As Joseph Caryl (1602-1673) first observed, hundreds of years before me, pay particular attention to the following 6 observations.
Here in verses 4-6, we see the progression of the Lord’s righteous anger towards lost sinners, all seen within 6 steps.
First, He hath ‘no pleasure’ in them.
Secondly, they shall ‘not dwell’ with them.
Thirdly, He ‘casteth them forth,’ and they shall ‘not stand in His sight.’
Fourthly, His ‘heart turns from them,’ Thou ‘hatest all workers of iniquity.’
Fifthly, His ‘hand is turned upon them,’ Thou shalt ‘destroy them’ that speak leasing.
Sixthly, His Spirit ‘rises against them,’ and is alienated from them, the Lord will ‘abhor’ the bloody man.
Let’s go over these prolific verses.
Verse 4 said, “For thou art not a God that hath pleasure in wickedness: neither shall evil dwell with thee.”
In vs 4a this word ‘wickedness’ is the Hebrew word (resha‛), it also means ‘lawlessness.’ It means committing a wrong against another, against God, especially a moral wrong, immorality, and/or any iniquity.
This word ‘God’ is the Hebrew word ‘êl (ale), it is an adjective which means that God is the ‘Mighty One,’ especially the ‘Almighty’ (but used also of a deity). Hence, it means that God is ‘great,’ ‘might’ and ‘power,’ when used as an ‘abstract term.’
In vs 4b it says that ‘evil shall not dwell with thee.’
This word ‘dwell’ is to sojourn, or to be entertained as a quest.
As I often warn others while preaching in the streets, God will not allow the unrighteous into heaven. That they must be cleansed, they must become regenerate, they must be born-again, and that they must be ‘clothed with the imputed righteousness’ of Christ to enter the kingdom of God.
Though this passage is not a comprehensive list of all sins that will damn a sinner to hell, but it is a summarization of such, to warn those that are deceived.
Paul said in 1 Cor 6:9-10, “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.”
To be frank, God hates sin, but He not only hates the sin; He hates those who practice such things.
In the next two verses, David escalates God’s hatred, holiness, and wrath ‘towards the sinner.’
Charles Spurgeon said, “Rest assured, Christ will not live in the parlour of our hearts, if we entertain the devil in our thoughts.”
My friends, there will be “No vacancy” in heaven for the unrepented sinner.
Verse 5 says, “The foolish shall not stand in thy sight: thou hatest all workers of iniquity.”
Verse 5a says the ‘foolish shall not be able to stand in God’s sight.’
The ‘foolish’ here are anyone outside of Christ, as well as Absalom and his army.
In verse 5b David says that ‘God hates all workers of iniquity, sin and/or lawlessness.’
This word ‘hate’ comes from the Hebrew word śânê’, it is a verb that is used 145 times in the Scriptures. Take note that it is a ‘verb,’ and not a feeling or an adjective. God’s holy hatred of sin, and of sinful man demands His verb actions.
As Charles H. Spurgeon (1834-1892) said, “It is not a little dislike, but a thorough hatred which God bears to workers of iniquity. To be hated of God is an awful thing. Oh let us be very faithful in warning the wicked around us, for it will be a terrible thing for them to fall into the hands of an angry God!”
Moreover, this ‘holy hatred’ goes beyond Absalom and his army, it says God hates ‘all’ of them.
William S. Plumer (1802-1880) said, “All sin is folly and madness. On this point all rational beings will at last come to the same conclusion. There will be no diversity of judgement on this matter in the last day. All sin is of its own nature malignant and mischievous. Its natural tendency is to ruin and wretchedness. It would produce far more misery on earth than it does, were it not for the restraints put upon it by the Lord. All sin is cruelty to one’s soul, to one’s race, to a bleeding Saviour.”
The non-regenerate has no grasp of the wickedness of their sins. But those saved do understand it better. But the ‘more sanctified’ a Christian becomes, the more they will hate their sin. Having said that, not even a solid mature well-schooled Christian can totally comprehend the ugliness of sin.
William Plumer goes on to say, “God’s nature is wholly opposed to it (sin). He cannot cease to abhor it, without ceasing to be God. No creature has any adequate conception of the evil of sin. None but God comprehends it. Because it is so vile, those who love it shall not stand in God’s sight. They shall not be owned as servants; they shall not be heard in their petitions; they shall not accomplish their designs; they shall fall before terrible judgments; they shall fall in the great day of trial. The overflowing scourge shall sweep them away. The reason is found in the divine purity. Thou hatest all workers of iniquity.”
Plumer goes on to say this about sin. “So repugnant to God’s nature is iniquity, that he would not even save his elect, except in a way that should fully and forever put away both the guilt and stain of sin, and bring all conceivable odium on transgression. God would not even spare his Son, when he stood in the place of sinners, lest he might seem to spare sin. Could he cease to hate it, he would cease to be worthy of love and confidence. “
Though God hates all sin, and all of ‘those that practice sin,’ there will also be different levels of ‘punishment in hell,’ just as there are different ‘rewards’ for Christians in heaven.
When lost sinners are known to pridefully flaunt their sinfulness, or arrogantly push their ungodly sinful lifestyles upon others, God’s Holy hatred ‘specifically towards them’ is understandable.
Though in the context that ‘everyone has sinned,’ and that ‘everyone needs salvation,’ and that all it takes is one small ‘white lie’ to condemn a person into hell; we must deny the false teaching that ‘all sin is equally the same as other sin.’
Joseph Caryl (1602-1673) said the following of these ‘workers of iniquity.’
“First, as intending (not all degrees of sinners, or sinners of every degree, but, the highest degree of sinners, great, and gross sinners, resolved and willful sinners. Such as sin industriously, and, as it were, artificially, with skill and care to get themselves a name, as if they had an ambition to be accounted workmen that need not be ashamed in doing that whereof all ought to be ashamed; these, in strictness of Scripture sense, are “workers of iniquity.” Hence note, notorious sinners made sin their business, or their trade. Though every sin be a work of iniquity, yet only some sinners are “workers of iniquity.”
Sadly today too many ‘professing’ (alleged) Christians are associating themselves with ‘workers of iniquity,’ or with ‘people groups’ that have self-identified themselves as being participators in particular sins.
David Clarkson (1621-1686) said this. “Avoid all that Christ hates. If you love, approve, entertain that which is hateful to Christ, how can He love you? What is that which Christ hates? The Psalmist (Psalm xiv. 7) tells us, making it one of Christ’s attributes, to hate wickedness… As Christ hates iniquity, so the “workers of iniquity.” You must not love them, as to be intimate with them, delight in the company of evil doers, openly profane, scorners of godliness, obstructers of the power of it (2 Cor. vi 14-18). If you love so near relations to wicked men, Christ will have no relation to you. If you would have communion with Christ in sweet acts of love, you must have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, nor those that act them.”
That manmade cliché “God hates the sin, but loves the sinner,” is not Scriptural.
As Matthew Henry (1862-1714) said, “When he says, Thou art not a God that has pleasure in wickedness, he means, “Thou art a God that hates it, as directly contrary to thy infinite purity and rectitude, and holy will.”
A.W. Pink (1886-1952) said in his book ‘The Sovereignty of God,’ “Thou hatest all workers of iniquity’ – not merely the works of iniquity. Here, then, is a flat repudiation of present teaching that, God hates sin but loves the sinner; Scripture says, ‘Thou hatest all workers of iniquity’ (Ps. 5:5)! ‘God is angry with the wicked every day.’ ‘He that believeth not the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God’—not ‘shall abide,’ but even now—‘abideth on him’ (Ps. 5:5; 8:11; John 3:36). Can God ‘love’ the one on whom His ‘wrath’ abides? Again; is it not evident that the words ‘The love of God which is in Christ Jesus’ (Rom. 8:39) mark a limitation, both in the sphere and objects of His love? Again; is it not plain from the words ‘Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated’ (Rom. 9:13) that God does not love everybody? … Is it conceivable that God will love the damned in the Lake of Fire? Yet, if He loves them now He will do so then, seeing that His love knows no change—He is ‘without variableness or shadow of turning!’”
Cornelius Hanko (1907-2005) said, “God loves His people in Christ, but He hates all the workers of iniquity (Ps. 5:5). Since God loves holiness, that very love turns in hatred against unholiness and sin. Since He is righteous, He burns with righteous indignation against all wickedness. Since He loves Himself as the sole Good, He banishes from His presence all that is in conflict with His Holy Name. God is a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate Him. No one has ever dared to deny that ‘God hates the devil.’ And yet also the devil is one of God’s creatures, who was created as a holy angel. If God hates the devil and his host, does He not hate those who are branded in Scripture as the very seed of the serpent, a generation of vipers? Nor can we distinguish between the deed and the person, as if God hates the sin but loves the sinner. For the deed can never be separated from the depravity of the one who commits the sin, nor can the guilt be reckoned to anyone but the guilty party. Therefore God does not banish sin to hell, but the sinner. The Word of God never hesitates, therefore, to declare that God’s very soul hates the wicked and him that loveth violence (Ps. 11:5). “Jacob have I loved, and Esau have I hated (Rom. 9:13).”
Herman Witsius (1636-1708) said, “From the holiness of God flows a mortal and implacable hatred of sin. It is as much the nature of holiness to ‘hate iniquity, as to love righteousness’ (Ps. 45:8). Sin is ‘an abomination to his soul’ (Prov. 6:16), that is, to his very essence, and essential holiness: and neither sin only, but also the sinner is the object of his hatred. ‘For all that do such things, and all that do unrighteously, are an abomination to the Lord thy God,’ (Deut. 25:16). He therefore separates from himself, and from his chosen people, all whom he cannot make partakers of his favour: and so he cannot but inflict upon them that punishment which is the effect of his hatred. According to Solomon’s reasoning, Prov. 16:5, ‘Every one that is proud in heart, is an abomination to the Lord.’ And the consequence is, He shall not be unpunished. In the same manner David reasons, Ps. 5:4, 5, 6, ‘Thou art not a God that hast pleasure in wickedness.’ Thou hatest sin, and the sinner too, because of it. ‘Thou hatest all the workers of iniquity.’ And surely the fruit of this must be exceeding bitter: ‘Thou shalt destroy them that speak leasing.’ And thus from the holiness of God, arises a hatred of sin and the sinner; from hatred, punishment.”
The following are miscellaneous quotes from some additional scholars.
James Montgomery Boice (1938-2000) said, “although hatred in God is of a different character than hatred in sinful human beings—his is a holy hatred—hate in God nevertheless does imply disapproval … [Esau] was the object of [God’s] displeasure … Since the selection involved in the words love and hate was made before either of the children was born, the words must involve a double predestination in which, on the one hand, Jacob was destined to salvation and, on the other hand, Esau was destined to be passed over and thus to perish.”
Jonathan Edwards (1703-1758) said, “But the extraordinary gifts of the Spirit are what God sometimes bestows on those whom he does not love, but hates …”
William Gouge (1575-1653) said, “That difference which is made between Esau a type of the world [Esau have I hated] and Jacob a type of the Church [Jacob have I loved (Mal 1:2-3)] shows that the Lord is far from hating his Church. The world, not the Church, is the object of God’s hatred … That none may pervert this comfortable doctrine, let me add two caveats. That men deceive not themselves with a naked name, thinking themselves to be of the Church, when they are only in it, such may Christ hate (Jer 12:8) …”
George Gillespie (1613-1649), “I cannot understand how there can be such a universal love of God to mankind as is maintained [by some]. Those that will say it must needs deny the absolute reprobation; then a love to those whom God hath absolutely reprobated both from salvation and the means of salvation.”
John Knox (1514-1572) said, “God will destroy all that speak lies. He hateth all that work iniquity; neither will he show himself merciful to such as maliciously offend. But all the sinners of the earth shall drink the dregs of that cup which the Eternal holdeth in his hands. For he will destroy all those that traitorously decline from him. They shall cry, but he will not hear.”
John Owen (1616-1683) said, “We deny that all mankind are the object of that love of God which moved him to send his Son to die; God having ‘made some for the day of evil’ (Prov. 16:4); ‘hated them before they were born’ (Rom. 9:11-13); ‘before of old ordained them to condemnation’ (Jude 4); being ‘fitted to destruction’ (Rom. 9:22); ‘made to be taken and destroyed’ (II Pet. 2:12); ‘appointed to wrath’ (I Thess. 5:9); to ‘go to their own place’ (Acts 1:25).”
David Paraeus (1548-1622) said “The cause [of the election of Jacob and reprobation of Esau] was the eternal purpose of God, whereby he determined to make such difference of them. Esau was wicked, and Jacob was no less wicked; for they were both conceived in sin: and yet God loved the one and hated the other: not for any inherent or foreseen difference, but kat’ eklogeen according to election, whereby he elected one, but not the other.”
Matthew Poole (1624-1679) said, “But as for the wicked, let them not rejoice in [David’s] trials, for far worse things are appointed for them; God hates and will severely punish them … His soul hateth; [God] hateth [him that loveth violence] with or from his soul, i.e. inwardly and ardently … For the righteous Lord loveth righteousness; his countenance doth behold the upright; This is given as the reason why God hateth, and punisheth wicked men so dreadfully.”
Here’s a quote from a postmodern scholar, Tim Challies said this ~
“God hates wicked people. “The LORD tests the righteous, but his soul hates the wicked, and the one who loves violence” (Psalm 11:5). He hates wicked people from his soul, from the very depth of his being. God hates their ways (Proverbs 15:9), their thoughts (Proverbs 15:26), their worship (Proverbs 15:8), their actions (Proverbs 6:18), and their evil deeds (Psalm 5:5). He singles out as a special object of his hatred the blasphemous deeds of the Nicolaitans, those who seduced God’s people with idolatry and sexual immorality. “Yet this you have: you hate the works of the Nicolaitans, which I also hate” (Revelation 2:6). Clearly, God hates the thoughts, deeds, and desires of evil people. But further, in some way he hates the evil people themselves. His soul reacts to them with righteous revulsion as his arm extends toward them in holy fury.”
Having said that, every sinner that is not yet born-again, is a wicked son of perdition, an enemy of Christ, and a hater of God (as I once was).
If my sermon has not yet convinced you of this attribute of God’s hatred towards sinner’s, then I suggest studying more on whom God hates; take note of the following verses.
God hates the wicked (Psalm 11:5)
God hates the sacrifices of the wicked (Proverbs 15:8)
God hates the ways of the wicked (Proverbs 15:9)
God hates the thoughts of the wicked (Proverbs 15:26)
God hates another six particular people groups (Proverbs 6:16-19)
God hated Esau (Malachi 1:1-3 & Romans 9:13)
God hated the deeds of the Nicolaitans (Revelation 2:6)
Just in the ‘first fifty’ Psalms alone, the Scriptures warn ‘fourteen times’ of God’s hatred of the sinner.
So my question to you, is which attribute of God will you come to know? Will He ‘with violence,’ cast you into the lake of fire? Or will you know His grace, mercy, forgiveness, love and salvation?
In the next verse God’s ‘holy justice’ escalates even more.
It says in vs 6, ‘Thou shalt destroy them that speak leasing: the Lord will abhor the bloody and deceitful man.’
In vs 6a it says ‘God will destroy them that speak leasing.’
God not only hates and destroys those who practice sin, He will destroy those that speak-out sin from their lips.
This word ‘leasing’ is a liar, one who speaks falsehood. It does not mean a person that misspoke, or that made a mistake, an element to this particular lie, would be ‘with deceit.’
Vs 6b says, ‘the Lord will abhor the bloody and deceitful man.’
This word ‘abhor’ is the Hebrew word tâ‛ab (taw-ab’), which means to loathe, to morally detest to immorality, or the abominable.
Remember an evidence of salvation, is God replaces our heart of stone, with a heart of flesh. He gives us new desires, new loves, and a holy hatred of sin.
Spurgeon said this of this word ‘abhor.’ “How forcible is this word abhor! Does it not show us how powerful and deep-seated is the hatred of the Lord against the workers of iniquity?”
And so we Christians must also ‘hate as God hates,’ and ‘love as God loves.’
It says in Romans 12:9, ‘Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor evil, and cling to what is good.’
Remember that a truly saved Christian will be an ‘ambassador of the Lord’ (His representative), they will be ‘imitators of Christ’ (according to the Scriptures).
I believe one of the biggest problems with most of today’s unbiblical churchianity, or evangelicalism, is that ‘professing’ Christians are comparing themselves to other ‘professing’ Christians.
In other words, their standards are extremely low, unbiblical, and at times even sinful. However, what we are to compare ourselves to, is the Lord’s Scriptures. The Doctrine of the sufficiency of Scriptures is our standard. Thus saith the Lord.
D.L. Moody (1837-1899) said in his book on Theology, “Holiness points to God’s majesty. The foundation of this emphasis is Leviticus 11:44-45: “Be holy, for I am holy.” Because God is morally pure, He cannot condone evil, or have any relationship to it (Ps. 11:4-6). In His holiness is the moral and ethical standard; He is the Law. He sets the standard.”
But David does not have to be ‘helpless and hopeless,’ let us move-onto verse 7.